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Ion White Poetry: Warning signs of ‘A Cult’ or How to know you are engaged by an Unsafe group Leader

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Frank Parlato
Frank Parlato

by Ion White Poetry

Vanguard is his name. He leads NXIVM.

* Extreme obsessiveness regarding the group/leader resulting in the exclusion of almost every practical consideration.

* Individual identity, the group, the leader and/or God as distinct and separate categories of existence become increasingly blurred.

* Instead, in the follower’s mind these identities become substantially and increasingly fused– as that person’s involvement with the group/leader continues and deepens.

* Whenever the group/leader is criticized or questioned it is characterized as “persecution”.

* Uncharacteristically stilted and seemingly programmed conversation and mannerisms, cloning of the group/leader in personal behavior.

* Dependency upon the group/leader for problem solving, solutions, and definitions without meaningful reflective thought.

* A seeming inability to think independently or analyze situations without group/leader involvement.

* Hyperactivity centered on the group/leader agenda, which seems to supersede any personal goals or individual interests.

* A dramatic loss of spontaneity and sense of humor.

* Increasing isolation from family and old friends unless they demonstrate an interest in the group/leader.

* Anything the group/leader does can be justified no matter how harsh or harmful.

* Former followers are at best-considered negative or worse evil and under bad influences. They can not be trusted and personal contact is avoided.